Told you I’d be back with a post about my hair. I’m going to keep this post very sweet and short. I haven’t lost any hair. My hair is growing. A strict regimen is needed. The wigs may get a revival.
So, I’ve been growing my hair out since my cut last summer.
I can tell you it has grown since this picture. That’s solely due to my three girlfriends and flat twist. My comfort level with my natural texture has grown immensely. Straightening my hair almost brings me no joy beyond the initial day. I worry about heat damage and hair reversion, lol. I think you’re familiar with all my protective styles. I embraced the shorter wigs as well. My next will be a long straight model.
Over the summer, I decided to allow a stylist to wash and condition my hair once a month. This would allow me to keep up with trims and get a little relief from the dreaded wash day. I noticed my hair wasn’t shedding as much as normal. But, I was still messing up in an area or two. I wasn’t keeping up with my wash days. Allowing weeks go by without washing my hair or deep conditioning. Recent stress had snatched two plugs of hair from my scalp and I wasn’t happy about it. Back to the peppermint oil, I ran and added lavender, eucalyptus, rosemary essential oils and black seed. More importantly, I still had my edges!
The hair was recovering and I noticed a few more grays around the perimeter. Then I decided to get my hair straightened for a wedding and my anxiety was high. My stylists I absolutely trust with my hair were booked, one was preparing for a big show and the other was styling a wedding. (You better have multiple stylists you trust and I’m not about to argue.) DAMN DAMN DAMN! So, I remembered a stylist that was close to me and specialized in natural hair care, Meah. I set up an appointment and I put my tresses in her hands. Praying all would be fine when I washed my hair the following week.
She gave me a protein treatment, which I hadn’t had in ages, and proceeded to blow dry my hair. I felt safe when she pulled out the heat protectant and the Wild Growth hair oil. Then she hit me with the one line women hate to hear from any stylist – “you need a trim.” Wtf! Everybody tells me that- fuck it do it. I hate raggedy ends more than single-strand knots. After she finished, she showed me the remains on the floor. It wasn’t much and it appeared she just dusted the ends. I dared not show it on the outside but I was overjoyed.
Finally, I got caught in a light mist at the King HS homecoming game and the hair started to curl. 🙂 Then I made the choice to wash and DC like I had always done in the beginning of this journey and within minutes ALL of my curls and coils were accounted for. Meah, definitely had my stamp of approval and considering I only wanted my hair washed/ blow dried once a month as a treat she certainly could be added to the rotation. I don’t remember how long it took me to wash my hair, condition and style it but it felt good. For the 4th time during this journey has a professional placed a pair of sheers to my mane and not chopped most of my hair off. I twisted my hair in those flat-twists and made a vow to never miss wash day for the remainder of this journey.
#Mission2020 has begun. “If the plan doesn’t work, change the plan to fit the goal.” My goal certainly has changed and I’m going to focus on doing my part to ensure I have the healthiest head of hair. Now when you see me in a few years with long Pippie Longstocking twists, remember I never gave up. 🙂
Have you had to re-evaluate your hair care regimen? What are your go-to methods for retaining length?